I'm new to the community! Quick little introduction: My name is Kayla, I'm 20 & currently very much in love with the love of my life. However, lately I've been having some problems with my relationship...
I'm with this really amazing guy and I really love him a lot and I know he cares greatly for me too. Unfortunately, he's still a little caught up with his ex. I'm not sure what to do to make him understand that she's his past, which he should let go of & I'm his future, what he should try to focus on. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
WHY DOES THE GUY I'VE LIKED FOR MONTHS HAVE TO HAVE SUCH LOW SELF-ESTEEM?
Sometimes i really do think he likes me, some people have pointed it out too.
But other times i really can't tell.
I know if he did, though, he wouldn't do anything about it. He has really low confidence to go out there
and say anything with out knowing the other person feels the same about him.
And i'm too afraid to ask him out or to tell him how i feel, or to tell a friend.
What if he actually doesn't like me?
I don't know what to do. I really really really like him and have for such a long time.
lost in life
ok so i've been in a relationship for over 2 years now. we have a 1 year old together but ever since i got pregnant its like he's pushing me away. always telling me to leave if im not happy. picking fights over nothing and its getting really old. he's not the nicest guy but how can i leave him when we have a kid together. Not to mention i still have feelings for my ex and we have been talking lately but he also has a kid and a girl but isnt happy as well. but together we might be. what should I do? Current Mood: aggravated
Just Looking For Feedback.
I am a new user and am hoping to write in my journal everyday if not every other day.
I just would like some input on my daily posts. So please feel free to add me and read my stuff.
I am going to someday turn my journal into a book; comments and all. So please give me some input.
Things that make you go hmmm
I am dating this guy for a month, going really well we are exclusive. We were supposed to spend the whole weekend together-his idea. He was so excited. Last minute he says he wants to go snowboarding with his friend Lisa so he will be dropping me off at 5am on sunday. Next thing I know he says he doesnt feel so good. I told him if he doesnt feel well we can hang when he is feeling better..he said no no I want to see you. But I feel like he is pulling away or some shit. And who the heck is Lisa- should I be concerned or am I just having a case of the insecurities?? I just thought why didnt he invite me?? My response to him was to play it cool- I said ok but I want to go home sat night instead of sleeping at his house and waking up at 5am to go home and that I will meet my friend out for her bday. (Which by the way he knew I couldnt see my friends because he bought me tickets to a show sat night) Thought it was shitty to cancel plans on sunday especially to chill with another chick. What is up with this shit??? Am I over reacting or do I have a right to feel bothered?? I want him to do what makes him happy and to have a life besides with me so I dont care about him going, just we had plans and he is going just him and Lisa. What you think?
i have no idea what to think of him. he won't answer any of my fucking questions.
why are guys so confusing?